The courage to be radically honest...

For many of us the idea of speaking up when our opinions are different than others (especially those in our community) is frightening. We feel we will be ostracized and left to deal with the fall out in isolation. Unfortunately we’ve seen this happen time and time again. Sometimes the intentions for exclusion are in good faith but I feel this kind of practice is keeping us from our true nature and our authentic power. I believe now more than ever the world needs each of us to bring our unique perspective to the table. I’m not suggesting that all of us grab a bullhorn and shout from the mountain tops but I do think we have to begin cultivating the courage it takes to be radically honest with ourselves and allow whatever change to happen from that space. Some practices to consider:

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1. Consistently question what you think you know to be true. Our world is in a portal of extreme change. This can feel chaotic and uneasy if we are holding on too tightly to old versions of ourselves and each other. If we can work through the discomfort of change, there is so much possibility on the other side.

2. Go inward for validation. Other people can be sources of information or even challenge us to grow but ultimately we have an inner knowing that guides us. Strengthening your intuition may take some time to cultivate because it’s often a faint whisper or a gentle nudge. Just because someone else is loud and taking up a lot of space does not mean they are right.

3. Become comfortable in the in-between spaces. There’s not always a right or wrong in every situation. Sometimes there’s a lot that needs to be transformed, evolved and grown before there is clarity. I think we are in a moment where so many of us (myself included) rush to find definitive answers because to stay in a space of the unknown can be difficult for our nervous systems to handle. Find safe spaces and practices that allow you to ground without judgement.

Announcement

I'm so excited to let you guys know that I will have my very first affirmation deck available next month! It will feature my artwork and my affirmations for you all to carry with you every day! I've been dreaming of this idea for years and to finally bring it to life has me super giddy! The cards are so beautiful and I hope you will all find them meaningful. I will let you know as soon as they are up in the shop!

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If we haven’t met irl, I’m Nichole Washington—an artist, intuitive, wife, sister, and daughter. I created this newsletter as a space to share wisdom, connect with the collective, and tap into our shared magic.

We are living through a time of deep transformation, and I believe the moment to step fully into your power and authenticity is now.

Wherever you are on your earthly journey, I want you to remember this: YOU are the magic.

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